Day 4: That perfect first date.

Day 4: Your idea of the first perfect date

I'm not really fond of making plans on how I would like my trip to go like. But irregardless of disappointments and unexecuted ideas, might as well go on with this, it's just a challenge anyway.

Honestly, I don't like the idea of extravagance when going out on dates, neither do I like the idea of putting your best foot forward (for the guys) since it kind of creates some bias. Be yourself and carry out what you can, although it would really be commending if the guy exerts effort on your first date.

I think first dates are about getting to know each other, so I really wouldn't advice watching a movie since that wouldn't provide you ample amount of time to talk. Going out for a walk would be fine, I believe that the key for a successful first date is to provide a lot of opportunity for interaction. Most people shy away from the idea of simple dates because they feel like they must do something complex to impress their dates, but I'd have to disagree. 

The only thing I need with my date is his genuine self, humor, wits and a small amount of cash for snacks (like street foods!) -- although I wouldn't mind paying. Street smarts can get you really far, and it doesn't cost a thing. If my date's savvy takes him far enough and I enjoyed his company, then that indeed is how perfectly I want my first date to be. Simple isn't it?